Dear Expectant Mother,
I think we are both in situations that we never thought we would have seen ourselves in. You are making a very difficult decision of whom to choose to raise your child and we are living with a giant hole in our hearts.
Let me tell you a little about ourselves. My name is Richard and my wife is Lisa. We met at college when we both took the same class, Introduction to Social Work. I was running behind the first day of class and got stuck sitting in the front row. When I sat down and looked to my right, I saw a beautiful red-headed girl. We sat by each other for the rest of the semester. During that time I got the courage to talk to her and eventually I asked her to go on a date. I was surprised when she said, “yes.” A couple years later we got married and the rest is history.
A lot of people would probably think that I have a wonderful life, and for the most part they would be right. I have a wonderful wife who I have been married to for 17 years, I have been a teacher for 15 years, and I have a home that we have lived in for almost 10 years. I’ve always wanted to be a father and for almost 5 years I kept thinking that my wife and I would have a baby together. I spent another 5 years fooling myself into believing we would be able to have a child.
About 3 years ago my wife came to me and asked if I would consider adoption. At first I was reluctant because I was still in denial that we would be able to have a child. Then I started thinking about it more and more and I started to get excited about a new life with a child. I started to dream again about what it would be like to be a father! I only hope that I can be as good as a father as my dad is.
Adopting your child would mean so much to us and we would do everything in our power to give him or her a wonderful life. As a teacher I would do everything I could to make sure he or she is succeeding in school. I would also like to see participation in extracurricular activities like sports, music, plays, etc. I will be a caring father figure who will be there for all the ups and downs life will have to offer.
I, Lisa, will make sure he or she is determined, strong, and confident. I will also make sure he or she never gives up on a dream and that he or she will not be afraid to speak up when needed. As we both enjoy laughing, we will make sure he or she grows up with a lot of smiles, giggles, and laughs.
My wife is a wonderful woman who never ceases to amaze me. She is someone who is confident, intelligent, quick-witted, funny, and outspoken. You can always spot her in a crowded room, because she’ll be the person with several people around her, hanging on her every word. People love being around her because she makes them laugh. When at home, Lisa enjoys reading her Kindle, spending time with her dog, or getting out and exploring. I, on the other hand, am a quiet person who enjoys spending time working outside or watching football on Saturdays. I can also be found visiting my parents or volunteering at Big Brothers, Big Sisters. When we spend time together, we are usually hanging out with friends, taking our yearly trip to see family in Texas, traveling around the country, watching a movie we recorded, or doing projects around the house.
I hope you consider us to be your child’s adoptive parents. We promise to give him or her a caring home.
Richard & Lisa